Friday, March 15, 2013

Confession


 
I usually blog about being a Mom and all the fun things that come along with it but I’m taking a moment to confess a selfish moment that I had today that I think all of us run in to at least a few times in our busy lives. I hope most won’t act on it but in this case I did and I’m sharing so others won’t do the same. I’ve been working part-time from home but back in September I decided to go into the office and work 3 days a week in order to get more work i.e. money to help pay off some of our debt before baby #2 arrives. I have three weeks left until D-day and I am still punching the time-card.

This morning I had a routine doctor visit and decided I would just take a half day at work. While I was at my visit I ran into a friend and we had time to catch up a little before I was called in for my appointment. While I was in my appointment I had a missed call and then a text from my friend saying her car wouldn’t start. So I called her up after my appointment and she asked if I would be able to take her back to her house. So what did my stupid self immediately think of??? I thought of myself and work and how this would set me back an hour. Worst of all, I actually mentioned to my friend I could drop her off but I would be late for work. She immediately said not to worry {of course, I would do the same if I asked for a favor and someone said that} and that she could call her husband to pick her up. It wasn’t until I got off the phone did I realize what a horrible friend I was. I called her again and insisted I picked her up. She said no worries her husband was on her way.

Writing this is making me cringe to know I actually did this! I say all this to make you aware life is too short to be thinking about work {James 4:14}, or worrying about being late to work, or what will work think if A B C happens. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve looked back on my “career” and thought, I can’t believe I put myself in those situations, I could have killed myself! And all because I was worried about my job and what would my boss think or the fact that I had no more vacation time and I would have to take the time unpaid {my example: literally driving on ice for 2 hours to get to work and I was pregnant}. Yes, I understand we have to pay our bills {blah, blah, blah} but let work be the very last thing you think about before your family and friends. In my {healthy} opinion, work should be the last priority in anyone’s life. We should work to live not live to work. Kudos, if you have the brains to be a lawyer, doctor or any other high paying profession where your work seems effortless to you. But for the majority of us, we’ll have average salary jobs in our lifetime and that’s OKAY! Just don’t live above your means. If you start noticing you have to turn friends/family events down or your husband/wife and you are arguing more then normal, chances are your letting work run your life. This is some advice I wish was given to me before I got married and started a family. It wasn’t until we had our first child did I realize how selfish I was with “my” time instead of “our” time as husband and wife.

So that's my confession {in a nutshell}. I've learned from it and I'm moving forward:). I think I needed something like this to happen for me to get back to what my priorities in life need to be. Thank you Lord for this test you've laid before me. 

Matthew 6:19-21 Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor dust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Thursday, March 14, 2013

Luke, our sweet darling Luke

Our sweet little baby Luke is 2. With everyday that passes he brings more and more joy into our hearts and lives. What's he been up to you ask? What HASN'T he been up to! He has been up to everything. It's absolutely crazy to see how much he's changed from his 1 year birthday. First, let's start off by saying he is a boy tried and true. He is all about trucks, balls and playing rough. Sad to say, he's even got the battle wounds to prove it. He's chipped several of his front teeth and had stitches on his chin. All within this past year! 

He absolutely loves Thomas the Train and Disney's cars right now. We play an episode almost every morning. He likes to hang out at Barnes N' Noble and play with their train set. Now we have our very own train set at home thanks to Grammy and Grampa that keeps him busy:).. We've taught him how to put a DVD in the player and start it up.

He's actually talking now and conversing. Everyday he says a new word and he loves to repeat everything we say. It can be really funny sometimes to hear some of the words he copies. We've also caught ourselves in whoopsy moments sometimes:). It cracks me up the most when I hear Dave hollering down to me from upstairs and then I'll hear Luke doing the same, yelling to me using my first name instead of Mommy.

When we pray before meals he bows his head and closes his eyes while sneaking some food as we're praying. It cracks me up every time. 

He is obsessed with Daddy now. Everything he see's Daddy doing he wants to do. He's outside most the day working alongside Dave, trying to use his measuring tape and tools to help build.We'll occasionally stop by the fire station to visit Dave and Luke already knows the route and hollers Daddy as soon as he see's the station. With any passing fire truck or sounds of sirens Luke hollers Daddy! {As if Daddy owns every fire truck in town}. If it wasn't for reading Dr. James Dobson's, Bringing Up Boys, this obsession with Daddy may have been a little harder for me to handle. Dobson explains in one of his chapters that once the boys reach 18 months of age or sometimes sooner they start to gravitate towards the person that most resembles them.

Luke loves playing with big kids. In fact, if we're at the park he follows them around like a lost puppy, getting all up in their personal space. I've been pretty impressed to see how much these kids are willing to interact with him. Hmm, maybe that's why Luke prefers this over playing with kids his age. He doesn't have to share with the big kids they just give him what he wants. Little stinker! Speaking of sharing, that's something we're teaching and he's getting better at. It was a difficult thing to teach at first. The opportunities to do so are in public and that's when I prefer not to make a scene. Grammy G bought us Llama Llama Time to Share and that's actually been helpful. He knows the word share and says it now. So he can't play dumb anymore. We just get up and leave if he can't share or we take the toy away.

Luke is now in a big boy bed and the transition was effortless. He was so proud to be getting big boy truck sheets. The first night he slept perpendicular on the bed and above the sheets. He looked so tiny all curled up on the big twin bed that it made me cry! He slept through the night and when he woke up he stayed in bed calling out for us to come get him. The next couple of days he learned how to tuck himself under the sheets and snuggle. It's been a few months and he still continues to remain in bed until we get him out. It's nice to see our discipline is paying off and he is a pretty obedient toddler {for the most part}. There have been a couple of times after we've tucked him in he'll be playing in bed and we'll be watching him on the video monitor. We'll see him get out of bed and then we turn the speaker on and tell him, in a stern voice, to get back in bed. We can see him jump with freight and run back to bed. We laugh so hard.

Within this year Luke also got to ride on his first airplane, bus and train when we went to North Carolina to meet cousin Ethan for the first time. Luke loved every moment of it. Too bad flights our so expensive otherwise we would do that more often. Those are his three obsessions and he got to ride on all of them in one day. 

We love watching Luke play and use his already vivid imagination. He plays so nicely by himself. I'll sneak into the playroom or watch him on the video monitor just before he sleeps or wakes up and see him playing with his toys making noises, sounds and then actually conversing with them. One time he was pretending that his stuffed puppy dog was falling off the bed and he would yell, "Oh no!" and then would pull him up to safety. We noticed he also likes to line up all his toys in neat little rows.

We've given Luke some chores that he enjoys and takes ownership with. He feeds our dog, Rufus morning and evening, he helps Mommy with laundry, he takes his dirty clothes to the laundry room and he picks up his toys and puts them away at the end of the day. I was a proud Mommy when I picked him up from Sunday school the other week and they told me Luke did well and even helped put the toys away!

We do see that Luke is stubborn like his Mommy and Daddy. That was a given since we both have the trait. He is most stubborn when it comes to lunch and dinner time. He loves breakfast and we never have any trouble with him eating his food then. However, with lunch and dinner, it can be a battle to get him to eat what we're eating sometimes. I refuse to be one of those parents that cooks him something different. I just don't have the time or energy or money to do so. So we have found out real quickly that if we 'reward' him with dessert for afterwards he'll gobble up his food! I chuckle because he actually prefers for me to put the dessert on his tray while he's eating his dinner so he can see what he's going to get after he eats his food.

Luke also likes to pick out his clothes for the day. He has his favorites shirts; two Lightning McQueen, Thomas the Train, one with with a Moose, Fire Truck and Dump Truck. When I enter his room in the morning sometimes he'll already be telling me which of those shirts he wants to wear! He's been really good about excepting if one of his shirt requests is dirty and in the wash, whew!

Luke has found his love of a good foot, head and back scratch/massage and demands it {just like his Mommy does with his Daddy, hee hee}at night time when I tuck him in. I think it's kind of cute so I give in to the demands:). He also likes our night time routine which I pray we will still be able to juggle even when his sister arrives. He gets both me and his Daddy {when Dave isn't working of course}. We read him a book, pray with him and sing him a song or two. His favorites are 'The B-I-B-L-E' and 'Jesus Loves Me'. He'll request these songs by exclaiming either 'Bible' or 'Yes'! We've even taught him both songs with hand motions and he'll try doing most of them. Too bad every time we try and get the video out to record he stops.

Luke, we love you so much. Your belly laughs, giggles, silliness,  thoughtfulness (by waving hi and bye to others or giving hugs and kissses) and affection our infectious to us and others around us. Mommy and Daddy miss you so much when we're apart from you. We both sneak into your room after you're asleep and just stare and kiss you over and over again. We just can't get enough. We are proud of you not by anything you do but because you are our son and we love you.

Here are some pictures of 2 year old Luke. Luke used to be so good at taking pictures, it was effortless. Now, he's difficult and refuses to smile. It's so hard to get a smiley picture! He is a very happy boy, just not when we take pictures:)













 




Saturday, February 16, 2013

It's a Girl!

It's a girl!! I've had this entry written in my drafts since I was 20 weeks along and now I'm already 33 weeks and, yippee well into the 3rd trimester!! I thought we were having a boy so I was very surprised when the nurse quickly said girl. It's starting to all make sense now that I think back on all my symptoms since the first trimester. This baby girl has literally been sucking the 'beauty' right out of me! The first trimester was rough. I was nausea's all day long {Zofran and I became best friends}, I was so tired I had to take naps with Luke and sometimes that wasn't enough and I'd fall asleep on the couch while Luke was watching cartoons {I felt like a horrible Mommy during these several weeks}. I couldn't clean or cook without gagging {poor Dave picked up my slack}. My face was and still is breaking out like crazy and my hair is falling out. There are also several other symptoms that are not lady like to share that I've been experiencing that are not pleasant at all. When pregnant with Luke, I had a glow and beautiful thick hair, my skin never looked better!

Second trimester was a breeze but now that I'm in the third trimester I'm ready to have our little girl arriving promptly please:). My heart-burn's been the most uncomfortable. I've had to take a break from my '1 cup a day' coffee in the morning because it came out of my nose one morning. I'm back to being tired again. At first every evening I thought I was coming down with something and it hit me that this is just what exhaustion feels like:). I also have been getting the Braxton Hicks {not fun}. This is mainly because I lift a toddler all day long. So needless to say I'm looking forward to meeting our little girl!

Our nursery is under construction and I've been blessed to receive clothes from both sister-in-laws and even my sister-in-laws sister for our baby girl!  I've already bought enough bows to last her a couple years:). I'm excited yet nervous about having a girl. Excited, because I'm a girly girl that will love the girl time and bond we'll have with each other. Nervous, because raising a girl should be rocket science since I am a girl myself, but scared to fail. With Luke, things are easy because I just need to love on him and show him affection, Daddy's in charge of teaching him what being a boy is all about. With a girl, Daddy can dote and love while I'm in charge of teaching her how to be a girl and eventually a woman and of course I too will get to dote and love on her as well:).

Below is me at 31 weeks. I originally said I was going to try and keep up with posting bump pictures but let's face it, I have an extremely slow running computer and no patience to upload one every week. So this is it! I've also determined that I'm not going to be that girl that stays skinny and all belly. I've already gained 40 pounds since my last doctor's visit and this is the exact cycle my body went through {if not worse} with Luke and I ended up gaining over 50 pounds with him! I am thankful to know I lost all that weight so it's possible to lose it again but man it's depressing to see that scale climb literally everyday. We just have 7 weeks left {or maybe sooner} until we meet our little baby girl, Katelyn{Kate}Alice Gentile.




Friday, February 15, 2013

Luke is 2!

Our sweet little munchkin turned 2. What a fun birthday he had! He has been really into Disney Cars the last several months so we thought it would be fun to go with that theme. With his birthday being in the cold winter we had to figure out what kind of activities we could have the toddlers do inside. We decided to have them each color, with washable markers (not paint, since it's in the house), wooden cars and then have them race on a track that Dave made! They had so much fun. The winner received a chocolate 'piston' trophy cup. What kid wouldn't want chocolate?! Luke did so well the entire day and even walked around and gave everyone hugs for the presents he opened. He had so much fun with his cousins and toddler friends. Happy Birthday Luke! You bring so much joy, love and laughter to our lives. God has truly blessed us with you and we are so in love.








Christmas with the Young's

Merry Christmas! Ahhh, what a relaxing day we had. After talking to many of my married friends and my newly wedded sister I realized how thankful we are to not have to split up our Christmas with two families in one day! I'm so thankful my in-laws are laid back and don't mind celebrating Christmas a week early so we don't have to travel on the actual holiday! Thankful also for Dave's schedule {can't believe I'm admitting this} making it nearly impossible to travel around holidays due to time-off being in such high demand during major holidays. This year, I think Luke kind of had a clue as to what was going on. He could actually talk this year and say words like Santa, Snowman, Tree and he could open presents without our help. Christmas is so fun with kids. To see the look of pure joy and excitement on their face when they open a present is priceless. Then they demand you open it  and set it up right away:). We got him a few small gifts, the grandparents have spoiled him so we figured he didn't need much from us. When we went to Grammy and Grampa's house and opened the door the first present he saw was a kid size Home Depot work bench with tools, safety goggles and all. He LOVED it! He wore the safety goggles all day long. He also got Thomas the Trains entire set and LOVED it! He would take his tools over to the train set and pretend to work on it and put it together. The rest of the day we relaxed, ate, played games and watched Christmas movies. Luke was the only toddler in the house so the noise volume was manageable. Next year we'll have 2 toddlers and 2 babies!! Get ready for some craziness!!:)

Here are some pictures from the day.











Christmas at the Gentiles

Christmas with the Gentiles! We had so much fun with our visit down to Florida. We got to visit Grandma {Great Grandma Young}. Luke was so cute with her; giving her hugs and kisses and playing with all her knick-knacks. It reminded me of when I was little and would visit.

This visit was a breath of fresh air in comparison to Thanksgiving since we had healthy kids! Luke was acting his normal sweet and silly self and having a good ole' time playing with his cousins. Him and Olivia hit it off the most. He loved chasing her around the house and horsing around. Olivia was a good sport about it all. There were a couple of times I thought she would surely cry with how rough Luke was acting.

Here are some pictures of the craziness of Christmas with four kids running around and it's only going to get bigger and louder in the years to come:).






Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving! This year we hosted Thanksgiving at our house with the Gentile side. We had a house full for an entire week and boy did we go through some food! Thank goodness Grammy and Pop-Pop were gracious enough to pick up the tab during the week, thank you! We had so much fun with Dave's parents and brother and family in town. We were majorly tested during this week however with poor Luke being sick with a virus. He ran a fever for about 5 days that would reach to 103 sometimes. So he pretty much wanted Mommy or Daddy the entire week and not much play. It was hard to juggle nurturing a sick baby and making sure everyone is having a good time. I think it was tough on all of us at times but we got through it. Thank goodness he was well when we traveled to Florida for Christmas!

Funny side story: One evening during dinner Luke was sitting in Dave's lap. We're all eating and I'm trying to give him anything that he will take. Since he was sick he wasn't really eating all week. As we're talking and eating I noticed Luke had a look on his face like he didn't like whatever was in his mouth at the time. I put my hand under his mouth so that he could spit it out and he started puking in my hand! It just kept coming and coming and finally came to a stop. I was in such shock that all I could do was ball my eyes out in laughter/crying. As much as it was gross for the puke to land in my hand it was much easier to clean my hand rather then clothes!

Here are some pictures to highlight the week.